As a breastfeeding mom, I’ve become pretty accustomed to breastfeeding in public.  I don’t think there’s a problem with it.  If a mom wants to pull out the boob and feed her kid, she should feel as comfortable doing that as a parent pulling out a bottle.  I tend to try to be discrete, especially somewhere like a restaurant or Church, using a cover or blanket so as not to expose myself, but that’s definately not required.  So, why is it that people are still so uncomfortable with breastfeeding in public?  WIth all the research of the benefits to both mother and child, I would think this would be a welcome sight to see.  Instead, still, many breastfeeding mothers are glared at and made to feel like they are not welcome.  Many feel the need to hide what they do instead of celebrate this special bond of mother and child.  How sad for us.

I want to hear what you think about this, leave me a comment on my blog.

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6 Responses to “breastfeeding in public”

no imageJael (Who am I?) Says:

I breastfed two babies who are now 20 and 24 (the 24 year old for 3 1/2 years, the 20 year old for 2 1/2 years - their choice). These same issues come up again and again, because we as a society have sexualized breasts to the extent that people are uncomfortable seeing them used for their most important function… feeding human babies!

I fed my children everywhere, including restaurants, whenever possible. I remember trying to feed on of my babies in a bathroom stall once, and thinking “how ridiculous… no one should have to eat in the bathroom!!!”

At least now you can find family areas in malls, comfortable seating, to nurse a baby. There are baby changing areas, which was unheard of when my children were babies. The world is changing. Slowly. We just have to keep reminding people what’s important.

The future of our planet: our children.

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no imageLaura (Who am I?) Says:

So true, things are better now than they used to be, but we are still so far behind so many other countries. Breasts are so sexualized. You see more on a billboard than you do on a nursing mother, yet there are no objections to the ad. I’ve tried to feed my baby in the bathroom too, and had the same thought, I wouln’t eat in here, why is he? I hope too that we can get people to see what is really impotant; the health and wellness of our children. Thanks for your reply!

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no imageKathie (Who am I?) Says:

It’s so funny. It just depends where you are in life. I remember before kids being soooo uncomfortable when someone just unbuttoned and started nursing. Then, I had a colicky nurse all the time baby, and well, things changed!!

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no imageLaura (Who am I?) Says:

I agree, things change with new experiences. We mothers need to be more willing to let people see us breastfeeding so that future generations think of it as normal, and not so out of the ordinary. The more people see it happen, the more comfortalbe people will be with it. It is about changes minds and changing our culture.

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no imageLaura (Who am I?) Says:

Your story is fabulous. You are a great writer and the story is inspiring. It’s hard not to be discouraged when I get the glares, stares, and comments about breastfeeding in public, but I try to remember what’s important. I want to say to them, “My super power - I make milk, what do you do?”

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